Divorce Preparation: 6 To-Do’s
November 19, 2018
If you are thinking about filing for divorce, there are several things to keep in mind before starting the process. Divorce preparation is one of the most important things to do before filing. Below are six tips to help you get ready.
Divorce Preparation in 6 Ways
Organize Your Financial Documents
When preparing to file for divorce, you must have the required documentation. Items such as financial records, phone logs, mortgages, and car notes will be imperative to filing for divorce properly. Gather all documentation you need prior to filing. Be sure to account for all shared documentation with your spouse. Make copies of everything before you file for divorce with your attorney. If you have online accounts that are shared as well, print the records out before your consultation. Once your spouse is served, he or she may get upset and be less likely to cooperate in getting together your shared documents.
Decide a Proper Custody Arrangement
One of the top things on your mind if you have children is their custody situation. Unless there are extreme circumstances regarding your spouse, you will most likely end up sharing custody of the children.
To get an idea of how to prepare your custody arrangement, look over your work calendar and the children’s school calendar. See what makes the most sense for your children and your work life. Also look at other activities and responsibilities before making your decision. Most couples have a huge issue with determining a custody arrangement that works for everyone. There’s a much better chance for an agreement to take place if both parents have time with the children and can fit it into the times of the week that make the most sense.
Make Necessary Purchases or Sales
At the beginning of a divorce case, the judge will issue an order that prevents either spouse from buying or selling any marital property. This stops spouses from taking a spiteful course of action such as withdrawing all the money from the other’s bank account.
If you have been planning to sell property or purchase a car, you will be prohibited from doing so after filing for divorce. It’s best to complete all major transactions before proceeding with a divorce.
Figure Out Your Living Situation
Before filing for divorce, it’s important to decide what your living arrangement will be. This decision will affect your rights regarding the marital residence. Determine if you plan to stay in the same house with your spouse or move somewhere else. If you were hoping to stay at the residence, moving into a friend or relative’s home during the process will weaken your chances.
Develop a Support Network
Divorces are not easy. There are many factors that will take a toll on your family. Develop a support network of individuals, family members, friends, and health professionals that can be there to help you stay strong. As important as it is to hire a family law attorney that can take the stress of the divorce process for you, having people close to you for emotional and mental support is very important too. The more support you have, the better decisions you will make through the divorce.
Call An Attorney. Who’s That? Jodat.
When you’ve decided to file for divorce, Jodat Law Group is here to help you through the process and take care of the busy work. Our team will handle your filing and help to get you back on your feet so you can enjoy the rest of your life. Contact our firm today for a free appointment with an attorney, at no cost! Whodat? Jodat!